A CHiP on My Shoulder: How to Love Your Cop with AttitudeTate Publishing, 2011 - 215 من الصفحات It hasn't been easy. Marriage is hard, but marriage to a police officer is even harder. Shift work, hypervigilance, mood swings, and risk have been a big part of the life I live with my officer. But with the right mindset, it can be done, and it can be done well. A CHiP on my Shoulder: How to Love Your Cop with Attitude provides true stories from several marriages, positive thoughts and proven principles on how to make a law enforcement marriage not only survive its difficulties, but thrive in the midst of them. 'I love this book! I am passionate about good health and marriage to my highway patrolman. A CHiP on my Shoulder speaks to both, making choices for a healthy law enforcement marriage. Victoria speaks candidly of the challenges unique to cops and their relationships, and offers positive ways to handle them.' - Alison Sweeney, Actress and Host of The Biggest Loser |
المحتوى
Preface | 21 |
Attitude Is Everything | 23 |
Mr and Mrs Cop What Makes Us Different? | 27 |
All Roads All Codes All In | 37 |
Creating Your Own Normal | 49 |
Code Four Communication | 59 |
Game Face Understanding Your Man | 75 |
Thick Skin Soft Heart How To Deal Emotionally | 91 |
Stuff Happens When Hard Times Come | 123 |
Silver Bullets Money and Your Marriage | 147 |
Little Future Cops | 161 |
To Serve and Protect Your Marriage That Is | 177 |
A Seventy Year Vision | 205 |
Resources | 211 |
Endnotes | 213 |
Peeps and Props Your Support System | 107 |
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